Monthly Archives: May 2012


Communication Skills

“Seek first to understand, then to be understood” - Seven Habits of Highly Successful People by Steven Covey

What a great concept! Most people in the business world apply this learned skill in order to help them better understand their clients and as a result succeed in achieving their mutual goals. When mutual business goals are met and success is achieved trust and confidence in the business relationship grows. The same is also true in personal relationships.

However, in our personal relationships with the people we care about and love the most we usually want to be understood before we are ready or willing to listen, hear and really understand the significant people in our life. That’s human nature.

The good news is that skill of understanding can be learned and will become a beneficial tool in communicating  clearly with everyone in your life.

Seek first to understand and then be understood begins by asking “Help Me Understand”